Subject: Re: Your last two messages From: LaserKate@aol.com Date: Sat, 8 Aug 1998 08:12:31 EDT

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Vip,

This communication really doesn't sound like you and not a one that would be
appropriate as an SELP leader...even if you think it.  When  one is being a
possibility and as the leader, one is attractive anyway.  People who are being
a possibility in life, (no matter who they are or what they look like), are
always attractive.

Kathy D

Vip Vyas wrote:

> Listening, Speaking and sex-appeal
>
> I find that when I'm leading the SELP or when I'm speaking in any group/
> community situation that the "I" gets much more present (or accountable) to
> what is being said. It's clear for me that the people in my program are
> expecting me to say something that they haven't heard before - almost as if
> they are expecting me to reveal some secret about life. I find that in these
> situations that I'm very very present to the language that I'm speaking.
> Perhaps, sex appeal is being present to the listening and speaking in
> groups - probably explains why so many women in my SELP want to "fuck my
> brains out."
>
> Vip
>
> PS I thought I'd add some juice for you Andrew :)
>

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