Subject: Re: A request From: LHanawalt@aol.com Date: Sun, 9 Aug 1998 19:50:39 EDT

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In a message dated 98-08-09 Jean Ciborowski writes, to 
Vip:

<< I invite you to *upgrade* the text you write - as your words were hurtful
to me- 
 as a woman and partner.  >>

>From Larry:

I'm speaking the language of "I" to fellow course members for exploration.

"I" request that each of us preface our messages with responses to these three
questions.  "I" think it's a useful practice, discipline.  "I" wonder if Vip
was speaking the language of vulgarity to playmates for the purpose of
shocking?  "I" have no idea, of course, only my own reactions and
interpretations.  "I" would like to hear Vip say what language he was
speaking, to whom, for what purpose.  And Andrew.  And Jean.  Each of us.  

"I" also request that we discontinue the use of scatalogical language in this
forum--or at least identify the type of language we are using and the purpose
in using it.

Jean, please say more about the nature of the hurt.  There is something useful
here.  I would suggest that Vip and Andrew are intentionally "breaking the
rules" and that we aren't clear about exactly what those rules are. 

What are the groundrules in this conversation?  

Again, I'm asking that one of the groundrules be that we start each
communication, between now and weekend six, by answering the three questions. 




 








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