>> we got her she goes to court this month. BUT I know that the courts 
>> will rule in her favor. Well we are hoping they won't we will have to 
>> see. My POINT is why is it that Dad's have to pay but when it comes to 
>> the MOM they get away with murder. If the roles were reversed my 
>> husband would be in jail or have his wages attached long before now.
>> So tell me how fair society is. I know there are alot of Dad's that 
>> don't pay and run, but I just want to make a statement that MOM"S do 
>> too what is good for one is good for the other I feel What is fair is 
>> fair. We shall see what the courts do with this. I do support Dad's and 
>> I am a Mom. just wanted to speak my mind. I think no matter who the 
>> child lives with the other should pay support. Thanks. Sue
>> 
>



>Dear Sue,
>
>Thank you for your reply.  Your story is repeated over and over across 
>1.2 million divorces per year, AND THIS MUST END.  Your support by 
>posting this on the usenet soc.men or soc.women, or giving me permission 
>post it, would help greatly in ending it.
>
>Thanks in advance for your involvement in ending this, and let me know if 
>you would like to be added to the mailing list to keep you updated on our 
>progress.
>
>regards,
>
>
>
>fathers
>
>



Hello,
     I would like it if you posted it all over the WORLD!! I am sick 
and tired of society blaming ALL DAD'S for what SOME do.  I feel kind 
of funny being that I am a MOM and a divorced one at that, but I see 
both sides of the WALLS that are built between parents and their kids. 
I have run a DayCare for over 16 years and I see alot believe me. I 
have even went to court to testify against a Mother. I felt that the 
child was in better hands with the Father. GUESS WHAT HE WON CUSTODY 
FULL at that.  The judge was wonderful,and truely had the best interest 
of the child at hand.  My husband and I have had so much trouble with 
his ex-wife and it many times almost split us up. But I have learned 
that it is not my husbands fault. At first I didn't understand how he 
could go along with all the shit she wanted and then came to 
realization that he did it for his kids.  I am one that would do 
anything for my kids too. You have to work at a relationship much 
harder when you have children from 2 different marriages, and if you do 
it will work.  We have even had his oldest daughter take us to court 
and sue ME well actually my son but he was a minor her mother put her 
up to it.  We just got a registered letter Friday from her now that she 
has been served with papers for support she is in a way being nice and 
asking him to drop the hearing and work it out. Well we are going to 
call her bluff.  I would like to be on the mailing list and you can 
post anything I write anywhere you like.  I am behind Father's rights 
100% and I AM FEMALE!!  Whats fair is fair in my book.  If I can help 
in any way please don't hesitate to ask for it.  
                           Have a Great Day!
                           A MOM FOR DAD'S

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