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On Sat, 5 Nov 1994, Eric Allen wrote:

> On Sept 9 of this year my ex-wife brought my daughter over and left her here
> with me. She said you can have her now. Well for me it was a dream come true.
> However she has not paid a dime in support. There is nothing on paper that says
> I have custody yet I DO have custody. Q: Should I taake this matter to court
> and risk losing my daughter, or should I just be than
> kful for how it is, and not expect her mother to bare any of the finacial
> responsiblity ?

Formalize it in court as quickly as possible.  It will only be a short 
time before she starts to want to reverse the decision.  You can be as 
lenient on the child support as you want, and get more later if you need 
it (you will).  The important thing is that until you have a court decree 
assigning you custody, you DON'T have legal primary custody!  This is a 
good time, with the two kids being killed by their mother.  The judge may 
be VERY responsive, especially this week.

	Rex Ballard.


From rballard@cnj.digex.net Tue Nov  8 06:50:31 1994
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